A Valentine's Day, and all other day's Psychic Reading on Love and Relationships

Questions on love from a psychic reading with Oracle Cards.

When someone comes to me who is single, with a reading about love, usually, they want to know if Mr. Right is coming?

The cards give probability. There is no one who will know 100% about love or anything. Why? The cards read what is happening from the energy of now. If anyone changes his/her mind, the possibility changes. All readings are based on probability.

If someone does not attract healthy relationships then they need to examine themselves.

Like attracts like. If the client does not like herself or himself, then they will attract someone who will not treat them well.

When I worked for a psychic hot-line, I had people who wanted their abusive partner to return. I had a problem with that. Mr. Wonderful was not wonderful. Why would you want him back? The answer was, “I love him.” To me, if you love someone who abuses you, physically emotionally or in any manner, then you need help. I told people to work on themselves to heal. Only then can you have a healthy relationship.

Should I stay in this relationship?

Usually, if you have to ask, the answer is no. I never tell anyone to break a relationship unless there is abuse. I tell them to get counseling.  If one party refuses, you have nothing to work with. It is not anyone’s responsibility to tell another person to break a relationship, especially a marriage.

If you stay in an abusive relationship, the question is why?

Why did I pick this person?

Often, the relationship is karmic. This means that you have had other lives, or at least one, in which you have unfinished business. You came together in this life to try to resolve whatever it was you did not resolve in that life or lives.

The answers: Either the abuser has to get help, or you have to decide you will not accept abuse.  When an abusive partner will not go for counseling, you have nothing to work with. Still, it is not up to me to tell someone to break the relationship. We are all responsible for our own choices. The question I ask is, “Do you want to keep living this way for the rest of whatever time you have left to live?

In the end, we are all responsible for our choices. It always begins and ends with you.